Friday, June 8, 2007
Finally the first post is up!
A very controversial first post..
Here goes my first post...not exactly a fun read for men/guys. But can't help it, I'd been feeling this for quite some time now and that's precisely the reason why I started this blog.
I had a realisation about women for quite some time just that it got confirmed today. There are three categories; we can precisely divide women into. The first one comprises of women who are beautiful, hot, and desirable by men. The second category is formed with those women who look nice, are homely, literally their mothers' daughters. The third and final group is of those kind of women, who vary in their looks from ok to bad may have some good qualities and may or may not be mothers' daughters. But these characteristics or physical features are not the main criterion for the differentiation. The three groups get different kind of treatment and expectations from men.
The first group is the dream of every man, they love looking, desiring and dreaming about this women. May be they form a part of other male rituals as well, but when it comes to marriage, they do no want these kind of women to be their wives. Simply because other men will desire them too, and someone so pretty would hurt their male ego. So flirt with them, appreciate their sex appeal, but stay away when it comes to a long term commitment.
Then comes the second category. Nice females, with loads of family values, who have listened and adhered to every word spoken by their parents till the age of 22 and would continue to do that for the rest of their lives for their husbands. They are the ideal pieces for men to take home to their moms and ask for the permission to marry her. Looks wise they may range from good to too good. Sex appeal they may or may not have since everything is supposedly hidden beneath their clothes.They are the ideal females, virgins to be precise and make for the perfect marriage material.
The third category is of the rebellious females, who do exactly what they feel like. Since childhood they have been tomboys, had more male friends than female friends, drink, and smoke without any guilt and are not afraid to speak their mind. So males love to be friends with these kinds of females. They are fun to be with; you can share all you girlfriend problems with them too. But they start and end at friendship. C'mon, who wants to marry a female who doesn't look or behave like one? They are real fun as friends, guys might as well learn the flirting tricks from them too, practice them to perfection and then try the expertise on their wives. If one or two of these women get lucky, they may get a guy to be their boyfriends, but they can be rest assured that if marriage is supposed to be the mark of a successful relationship, the success is never going to come their way.